I’ve read many relationship books, but I have to say this is the best one yet.

The basic premise of the book is that we put too much focus on what we have in common with the person we are dating or interested in dating. Instead, we should be self-aware and know what our deal breakers are.

The book shows you how to make your no-no list, which will include things that are complete deal breakers, as well as things you don’t like by may be willing to compromise on and live with. Don’t expect that you can change the other person, and don’t expect that you will change either.

This book made me reflect on the things that I can’t handle and don’t want in a relationship, because I have to still be able to be me.

The book could be shorter, it does get fairly repetitive, but I’ll still give it 5 stars because I like the message in it.